Ok, Helene – that’s an answer I understand!! Thank you.
You see – if you say “on this photo there’s clearly a male” and then “on this photo it’s clearly a female” – and for my non-expert’s eyes it’s the same fish with only slighty different colour marks …….. then I don’t understand how such mutually exclusive opinions can arise. Then I ask for concrete reasons that make you say “male” oder “female” – because I don’t see the difference.
But what you said now – you see female and male attributes, none of them really convincing – then I understand, because that’s what I see daily – and what I’m daily wondering about ……….